Every Word a . . .
August 10, 2009
Courtesy of Sailorette, the infamous “brick through a window ain’t a hate crime” case, dissected by Patterico’s crew.
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As far as the “hate-fucking” notion goes, I’ve admitted that it’s theoretically possible that it would fall on this side of the rape-line, but it’s highly unlikely. After all, if you’re fucking someone out of true hate, do you really “hear” them when they utter the “safe word”?
Highly unlikely, and—for the record, once again—the context of the Playboy article that made the term a household word made it clear that there was an undercurrent of woman-hatred therein.
And I do realize that sex can be much more tied up with aggression for men than it is for women, but the predominant use of the term “hate fuck” is male-on-female.
And, just as a refresher course for some of my male readers, the female equivalent of the gonads is the ovaries, which are conveniently located close near the end of the vaginal canal, on either side of the too-sensitive uterus, which cramps violently if one even looks at it funny. Plus, the female skin “down there” is even thinner than the equivalent male skin. So while there are people of both sexes who “like it rough,” unasked-for roughness does to a woman the vague equivalent of what scissors near the sack do for a male: the man, seeing that, tends to shrink. The woman dries up. Like Death Valley.
So the rougher the sex, the more important that pesky issue of consent becomes.
Have a nice day!
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August 10th, 2009 at 6:46 pm
I guess I’m a dinosaur, after having had 34 years of an almost perfect marriage, I find it extremely difficult to comprehend the underlying attitude behind this “hate fuck” thing. I just find it abhorrent and malicious. How does hate, fit into anything having to do with love or sex?
I don’t get it…and never plan to.
Ozzy
August 10th, 2009 at 8:11 pm
I think you’ll understand what I mean when I say I’m glad, Ozzy….
Sometimes, people suck….
August 10th, 2009 at 8:31 pm
My male readers are . . . [clearing throat] real men.
August 11th, 2009 at 7:12 am
And you still owe me a hate fracking. Just sayin’